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An Ode To Monica Bellucci's Goddess-In-Prada Style

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Monica Bellucci, thou art more lovely than any other late-'90s-early-2000s Euro babe. Let us count the ways: the ultimate bella figura, our generation's answer to Sophia Loren, and a living, breathing, Caravaggio painting made flesh (in a D&G fishtail dress, of course). A woman who could make a napkin look like couture obviously has our unending devotion, which is why we've devoted an entire slideshow to her.

Born in 1964 in Umbria, Italy, Bellucci began her career as a model in 1988 when she moved to Milan and signed with Elite. She's been name-checked in men's mags' hottest-women-in-the-world polls more than we can count, and she made history as the oldest Bond girl ever (which is ludicrous, but kudos) in last year's James Bond hit Spectre with Daniel Craig.

Our favorite Monica period, however, has to be 1996 to 2006. Why? Well, she met Vincent Cassel, on the set of their 1996 film The Apartment. They wed in 1999, starred in Irreversible in 2002, and became the globe's sexiest couple to have united, ever. Granted, they've since divorced. But let's not dwell on what we cannot change.

And though time has passed, Monica's goddess-in-Prada style is just as fawned over as ever. Ahead, find our insufficient, but very heartfelt, ode to all things Bellucci.



1985
Monica giving us both life and '80s-supermodel intensity. That off-the-shoulder sweetheart neckline deserves its own Tumblr account.

1985
Black tailoring. 'Nuff said.

1997
When your caught-off-guard face shines brighter than a mega-watt diamond choker.

1999
Underwear as outerwear and diamonds you could swing from. More is more.

2000
Us in a corset = Wannabe Kardashian. Monica in a corset = Queen of the universe.

2000
A tuxedo never looked better.

2000
This is what a global sex symbol wears to a party in the year 2000: a lace body stocking.

1999
Channeling Claudia Cardinale in a dental-floss strapped slip dress. Our favorite Monica moment.

2000
Moussey waves? Check. See through cardigan and camisole? Check. Choker? Check. Y2K nailed? Check.

2001
Red. Alert.

2003
In her signature leopard print and an Elizabethan drop pearl choker.



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Margot Robbie Gave Alexander Skarsgård A Sex Scene Bruise

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Margot Robbie is not afraid of throwing punches — even during fake sex, apparently. In a new interview with Entertainment Weekly, The Legend of Tarzan director David Yates said that the actress, who plays Jane, took a note from him a little too far during an intimate scene with her Tarzan, Alexander Skarsgård. She even left a mark.

"They’re doing this love scene together, and I said [to Robbie], ‘Just slap Alex while you’re making love, just kind of give him a punch,'" Yates told EW. "It was sort of an earthy, sensual moment of her enjoying sex with Alex, and the only bruise he picked up during the entire shoot was probably that punch from Margot. Which says a lot about her feistiness."

The anecdote is missing some all important details, including context. For instance: Why did Yates think this particular sex scene should contain a punch of passion? And on which part of Skarsgård's body did Robbie leave that bruise?

Yates used the story to support the movie's treatment of Jane, arguing that he didn't want "it to feel archaic or dated, where it’s like, tough guy has to save the poor girl." He said: "You have to feel that she’s strong and independent, and when you cast Margot, you’ll definitely get that."

We'll reserve our judgments until we actually see the film. In the most recent trailer, though, it seems as if Jane's plot line mostly revolves around being rescued. And if Yates really wanted to prove her ferocity, he might have chosen to share an example of her truly kicking ass rather than one that involves romance. Still, there's nothing quite like a good sex scene mishap.



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The Abortion Pill Is Getting A New Label — Here's Why That's Great News

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The FDA just dealt a serious blow to legislators who seek to undercut women's access to abortion care. Today, the agency announced that it has updated the abortion pill's label to reflect how it is currently being prescribed by providers in most states. Meaning: Anti-choice lawmakers will no longer be able to limit abortion access by requiring that providers adhere to unnecessary abortion-pill prescription requirements.

For years, doctors have prescribed the drug mifepristone, together with a medication called misoprostol, to induce miscarriage and end early pregnancy. In 2000, the FDA approved the mifepristone brand Mifeprex. The FDA didn't update the drug's label for a decade and a half, even though by 2001, some 80% of abortion providers weren't following that label's instructions.

Mifeprex's old label, which was based on outdated clinical evidence from the 1990s, stipulated that a woman take 600 milligrams of the medication within 49 days of beginning her last period, even though doctors have understood for 15 years that Mifeprex is just as effective and safe when prescribed later in pregnancy and in lower dosages. The FDA's new rules increase the window of time in which a woman can take Mifeprex from 49 to 70 days after the beginning of her last period, and they lower the dosage to 200 milligrams.

What's more, the new rules reduce the number of clinic visits required of many women who seek medical abortion. The old rules called for patients to visit a clinic three times — one to take Mifeprex, the next to take misoprostol, and the third for a check-in. Now, the label allows for the misoprostol to be taken "at a location appropriate for the patient." (Women are still advised to return to their provider for a check-in one or two weeks after taking Mifeprex; the old recommendation was two weeks.)

The new labelling is especially good news for women in North Dakota, Texas, and Ohio, where state laws mandate that abortion providers stick to on-label prescriptions of abortion medication, limiting the number of women who are eligible for or can access it. (This mandate is rolled up in HB2, the insidious anti-choice legislation that closed dozens of abortion clinics in Texas.)

President of research organization Gynuity Health Projects Beverly Winikoff, MD, MPH, is encouraged by the FDA's announcement, but recognizes that access to medical abortion remains far too limited.

"The good news is that the approved regimen has finally caught up with medical practice and evidence. The bad news is mifepristone remains overly regulated and is still not available in pharmacies," she said in a statement. "While these changes will help many women, additional regulatory changes are essential to maximize access to this important medication. Mifepristone holds untapped potential for improving the availability and affordability of abortion in the U.S."





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The Games Of Thrones Cast Shares Some Jon Snow Insights

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We're a little less than a month away from the Game of Thrones season 6 premiere. But we're no closer to knowing what's really going on with the whole Jon Snow situation. Is he somehow still alive? Is he actually dead? Is he alive and undead? Is no news good news?

But as annoyed as fans may be about having no news on that front, the cast is pretty sick of being asked about it. The ladies of Game of Thrones recently gathered together to talk about how the Jon Snow question is dominating their lives. Check you what they had to say, below.







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Your Perfect Highlighter — Found

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Highlighter is one of the worst kept beauty secrets: Everyone knows that if you want to fake a healthy glow, it's not really bronzer you're after — it's highlighter. Consider it concealer's sexy older cousin. While a good concealer can hide a multitude of late-night sins, highlighter uses reflective properties to distract the eye away from those sins. When well-executed, it lends an effect that amounts to having your own personal lighting team wherever you go, adding dimension to your face without delving into some pro-makeup artist epic contouring session. Available in powder, liquid, or cream forms, with or without shimmer, the amount of highlighters available are endless.

However, not all highlighters are created equal. Just like foundation, not every highlighter is made for every skin tone. Depending on what the product is, where you place it, and — not the least of your problems — what your colouring is, you can end up with a shiny, frosty, and dare we say it, somewhat stripper-ish effect. A pearlescent white highlighter just really isn't the best choice for naturally tan or olive skin.

Celebrity makeup artist Stella Kae, who is responsible for the glowing faces of Alyssa Milano, Brandi Cyrus, and Toni Braxton, says she always highlights "as a final touch," after she's completed the full face, to add more dimension. "The ideal places to highlight are underneath the arch of the brow, in the inner corner of the eyes, the bridge of the nose just between the eyes, on the high points of the cheeks, and right above the lips at the Cupid's bow. On a look that is more natural or uses light/neutral eyeshadow shades, you can also highlight just in the centre of the eyelid."

Pale To Fair Skin
For the fairest of porcelain to alabaster skin tones — think Amanda Seyfried or Dita Von Teese — Kae recommends a pearl-colored pressed powder, such as Anastasia Beverly Hills' illuminator in Starlight. The pearl pigment will add just enough opalescence to wake up your face without making you look too "ice princess."

Anastasia Beverly Hills
Illuminator in Starlight, $28, available at Macy's.

This gorgeous pearlized compact from Guerlain is exactly what those with fair skin should be using, as it will add just the right amount of highlight to pale skin tones. The mix of soft colors helps to blur imperfections and adds just a touch of highlight to fair skin.

Guerlain Meteorites Voyage Exceptional Compacted Pearls of Powder, $179, available at Sephora.com.

Prefer a cream formula? This Smashbox highlighter is the easiest option. Simply draw anywhere you want to apply shimmer (like the tops of cheekbones) with one side, then buff into skin with the built-in sponge.

Smashbox L.A. Lights Blendable Lip & Cheek Color in Hollywood & Highlight, $29, available at Nordstrom.

This Champagne-toned highlighter will give a healthy sheen.

Becca Cosmetics Shimmering Skin Perfector in Opal, $38, available at Sephora.

Fair To Medium Skin Tones
"For fair to medium tones, like Jessica Biel, there is probably the widest product range to choose from, so those that fall into this category can afford to be less selective with their highlighters," says Kae. "Anything from Champagne to pale pink is flattering." She says her go-to for this shade of skin is the NARS Multiple in Luxor.

This super-creamy, all-over luminizer from Stila is the perfect tool for highlighting the skin along your cheekbones — or mixing it into your lotion to add a touch of shimmer all over. The Kitten hue is best for fair to medium skin tones due to its Champagne shade.

Stila All Over Shimmer Liquid Luminizer in Kitten, $20, available at StilaCosmetics.com.

This gorgeous illuminating powder from Laura Mercier works well on fair- to medium-skinned ladies (who can pull off basically any highlight). The soft, rose-gold shimmer looks just as good in the compact as it does on your skin. And feel free to use it everywhere — even on the décolletage.

Laura Mercier Face Illuminator Powder, $42, available at Sephora.

Medium To Dark Skin Tones
For those with warmer skin tones or that have a lot of yellow in their skin — think Queen Bey or Mindy Kaling — try not to use anything too pink or your skin will look more disco ball than cleverly defined. Kae says your best option is a neutral peach shade such as MAC Cosmetics Prep+Prime Highlighter Pen in Peach Lustre.

This beige-toned highlighting powder from Hourglass Cosmetics is perfect for those with warmer skin tones. Instead of bringing out yellow or pink undertones in the skin, this formula is neutral in tone, making it a foolproof way to add just a hint of flattering shimmer anywhere you place it.

Hourglass
Ambient Lighting Powder in Radiant Light, $45, available at Sephora.com.

For those looking for something on the natural-looking side of the spectrum, Josie Maran's liquid highlighter is perfect. The slightly shimmery, golden finish makes skin glow, whether dabbed over or under foundation — or mixed into moisturizer or makeup.

Josie Maran
Argan Enlightenment Illuminizer, $26, available at Sephora.

On a budget? E.L.F.'s luminous, peach powder highlighter packs just the right amount of shimmer for the tops of cheekbones — and rings in at less than a latte. Tip: Use a tiny brush to dust it over your Cupid's bow and in the corners of your eyes.

E.L.F. Baked Highlighter in Blush Gems, $3, available at E.L.F.

Dark To Deep Skin Tones
If your skin is as lustrous and rich as Lupita Nyong'o, go with gold shimmer. "The richer the tone of the skin is, the richer of a gold you can use," says Kae. "Avoid using anything lighter than the skin color since this will create a gray cast. A great trick I learned from fellow artist Saisha Beecham is using loose pearl eyeshadow pigments, such as NYX Loose Pearl Eyeshadows, in anything from pale gold to almost bronze depending on your skin color." If you can't find a shade that complements your skin the way you like it, skip color altogether. "Use colorless products that simply shine," advises Kae.

Aquaphor, Rose Bud Salve, and Kae's personal favorite, Pretty Peaushun Skintight Body Lotion in Clear, tapped on lightly with fingers, will all work with your skin to give off that sheer dimension you crave.

Without a doubt, this is RMS Beauty’s most renowned product, and for good reason. The Living Luminizer seems to work like magic, bringing light to the skin with just a couple of swipes. On dark to deep skin tones, the sheer yet glowing cream does wonders in illuminating skin without making it look gray.

RMS Beauty Living Luminizer, $38, available at RMS Beauty.

Prefer powder? This light formula is the perfect way to highlight the tops of cheekbones in a flash, thanks to the convenient built-in brush and flattering golden hue.

Jay Manuel Beauty Skin Face Lift in Gold, $32, available at Jay Manuel Beauty.

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The Truth About The Pantene Hair-Burning Controversy

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Pantene products have recently (literally) come under fire, for ostensibly causing hazardous side effects during routine dye jobs.

Patrik Alan Simpson of Mixed Elements salon in Maryland took to Facebook last week with a public service announcement for anyone willing to listen (uh, read). "For the love of anything holy...PLEASE stop using this crap in your hair!" he wrote.

"This crap" unceremoniously refers to Pantene's Moisture Renewal shampoo and conditioner, which he included a picture of in the post. He went on to recount a situation in which a client's hair started to burn — with smoke "billowing out" of the aluminum foil — after he applied a light-blond, ombré color to her hair. He stressed that he's been doing this process for years without incident.

"I asked the usual questions i.e. Well water, medication etc. the only thing that was there, she used Pantene shampoo and conditioner for over a year," he explains on Facebook. "With the build up of parabens and plastic and silicones when it comes in-contact with a bleach or hi-lift color it reacts and the bleach will melt off the build up and becomes a very hot liquid and if it come in contact with skin it will cause a burn. [sic]"

This seems to be a hot-button issue. Many Pantene users claim to have experienced similar issues — some of them flocking to Simpson's post (which has 56,000+ shares and counting) with their own stories. "This happened to me yeeeears ago! My scalp bubbled from the burns. It was awful. Now, I only use Organix or Renpure," one Facebook user wrote. "I used to use this when my mom dyed my hair back blonde. Same thing happened to me, very scary," another recalled. There are even several discussion threads — from 2013, 2010, and 2006— where people complain about the negative effects they attribute to the brand's products, which range from burning incidents to hair loss.

Despite the number of complaints, we couldn't uncover any scientific evidence that proves Pantene is at fault in any of these incidents. And the experts we spoke with didn't seem to be convinced of the claims.


PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT!!!!!!!For the love of anything holy...... PLEASE stop using this crap in your hair! I...

Posted by Patrik Alan Simpson on Tuesday, 22 March 2016



"There is no ingredient in Pantene that is flammable in that manner; I couldn't even begin to give you a theory!" says cosmetic chemist Ni'Kita Wilson. She explains that placing the blame on the ingredients misses the mark. "Plastics is such a broad term that it really can't apply here. Silicones coat the hair strands to seal down the cuticles. If there is buildup on the hair, then the only negative impact could potentially be the color not taking as well."

Snopes.com
, a website regarded as "an online touchstone of rumor research," echoes Wilson's sentiment. As it points out, none of the ingredients Pantene lists on its website are out of the ordinary. In fact, when compared with pricier hair products, there is a ton of overlap — including the silicon-based polymer dimethicone.

As far as the plastics rumor goes, well, beauty blog The Beauty Brains debunked that claim years ago, stating that it was "a myth started by stylists to keep you from buying salon products." In a separate post, the blog even challenges users to compare Pantene's ingredient list to that of any other hair-care brand. "Even though the names vary, you'll see three basic types of ingredients: fatty alcohols (like cetyl and stearyl alcohol), conditioning ingredients (like stearamidopropylamine and quaternium-18), and silicones (like dimethicone and cyclomethicone)," the article states. "There's nary a plastic to be found in Pantene. And no, it doesn't make your hair fall out either."

The brand also sent us an email to confirm that its products do not contain plastic.

So, what is causing these hazardous instances? Colorist Aura Friedman says that other substances in the hair could be at fault. "That kind of chemical reaction happens when there are heavy metals or henna in the hair," she explains. "I haven't had that sort of chemical reaction on people's hair that use Pantene."


There is no ingredient in Pantene that is flammable in that manner; I couldn't even begin to give you a theory!

Hairstylist Paul Cucinello also places the blame elsewhere. "In the event that foil highlights start puffing up and literally exploding (color specialists refer to this as a 'heat reaction'), it is not because of the silicones contained in many shampoos and conditioners — it's due to a perfect storm between sodium hydroxide, ammonia, and aluminum," he says. "When a lightener is applied to hair that has been shampooed with products that contain sodium hydroxide, using aluminum foil can create extreme heat reactions. This can make foils heat up and expand, potentially causing chemical burns and hair breakage. (Have you seen Chris Rock's documentary Good Hair?)"

Cucinello stresses that this is why it's vital for colorists and clients to be honest with each other. "It's important for colorists to ask what products their clients are using at home, so they can avoid the unpleasant experience of having foils explode on your head," he says. "Pantene is not really the culprit here. It's a lack of knowledge about what ingredients are in the products consumers are using in their hair and on their bodies."

Despite Simpson's inflammatory claims, Pantene stands firmly by its products. "The people’s trust in the quality of our products and their safety is of our utmost priority," the brand said in a statement released to Refinery29. "Millions of consumers use and enjoy our Pantene products daily and color regularly as well. There is no connection between our products and the reaction this hairdresser saw on the client’s hair. We don’t know what caused this; shampoos and conditioners cannot."






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YES — Louboutin Added Flats To Its Nudes Collection

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Update: If you needed further proof that ballet flats are the shoe silhouette for this spring and summer, consider this it. Today, Christian Louboutin introduced a new flat style (dubbed the Solasofia) to its pre-existing nudes collection (which the brand also extended to match a variety of skin tones last year). Now, you don't need sky-high heels to make your legs look longer. At the moment, only a few options of this pointed-toe piece are available to order or pre-order online, but we suspect these offerings will be expanded as the season continues. Click on to find your match.

This post was originally published on April 22, 2015.

Fashion wisdom has long maintained that every woman needs a good nude shoe in her closet. After all, nothing else makes your legs look as long. But, where fashion has failed so many women is in providing so-called "nude" shoes in colors other than beige. Luckily, yesterday Christian Louboutin made some major strides to fix that — get ready for the de-beigeing of nude.

The New Nudes Collection, available at Bergdorf Goodman, includes such classic Louboutin styles as the Pigalle Follies and the Iriza d'Orsay, now available in a range of five shades, from "fair blush" to "rich chestnut." To show off the shoes' allure, Louboutin shows them worn fetchingly by three of our favorite fashion people: Shiona Turini, Nina Garcia, and Jane Keltner deValle. Together they prove that shoes as diverse as the women who wear them are long overdue.

The Cut
reports that Louboutin plans to expand his nude offerings beyond just these five shades, because, as the designer states: "There are two colors that I'm missing the range of in the middle. In the next year, we will be at seven total skin tones."

A welcome change, because, as Turini put it: "The shade of your very own skin never goes out of style."

Christian Louboutin Solasofia Flat "Nats" N°3, $595, available at Christian Louboutin.

Christian Louboutin Solasofia Flat "Toudou" N°7, $595, available at Christian Louboutin.

Christian Louboutin Solasofia Flat "Lea Nue" N°1, $595, available at Christian Louboutin.

Christian Louboutin Solasofia Flat "Matilda" N°2, $595, available at Christian Louboutin.

Christian Louboutin Solasofia Flat "Maya" N°4, $595, available at Christian Louboutin.



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22 Female Stand-Up Comedians You Need To Know

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It can be tough to find new stand-up comics worth your time and attention. Still, that's no excuse to have your go-to female comic list begin and end with Amy Schumer. She definitely deserves a spot on your roster, but there are so many more funny women to choose from. Some dominate Twitter in between gigs. Some have found fame as TV stars who still fit in a set or two on the side. While some are comedians you already love, yet maybe you had no idea they actually got their start in comedy with a mic, on a lonely stage. They tackle issues from navigating online dating to dealing with politicians who are constantly spouting anti-women rhetoric.

So use this list as a jumping off point for discovering new shows to see and comedy albums to listen to. Stand-up is still dominated by men, but you could be part of the wave of fans that take these female comics to the next level of fame.


Cristela Alonzo
Alonzo is probably best known for her self-titled sitcom, Cristela, which ran from 2014-2015. This year, she'll lend her voice-acting skills to the upcoming animated film adaptation of Angry Birds.

Nikki Black
Nikki Black performed this hilarious set about facing a breast cancer diagnosis, just a week after receiving the news. In addition to her stand-up, she also writes for the humor site Reductress.

Jenny Zigrino
In addition to appearing as a stand-up guest on Conan, Zigrino's screen credits include Fifty Shades of Black and the upcoming Bad Santa 2. She performs live frequently and has made appearances at UCB, The Knitting Factory, and The Laugh Factory so far this year.

Sasheer Zamata
Zamata is best known as an SNL cast member (she's been on the show since 2014). She's also written and directed several comedy videos, and appeared in films like Yoga Hosers and Sleight.

Shelby Fero
In addition to her stand-up, Fero has an impressive comedy-writing résumé, with credits on @midnight and Robot Chicken. But you might know her as Denise.

Vijai Nathan
Vijai Nathan's hilarious stand-up focuses on dating woes and parental expectations. Her jokes have been well-received — she's gotten great press from Washington City Paper and the Los Angeles Examiner.

Gina Yashere
Yashere delivers great material about her experience as British woman living in America and visiting her parents' home country of Nigeria. She was also a contestant on season 5 of Last Comic Standing, where she made it to the top 10.

Francesca Martinez
Martinez, who has cerebral palsy, finds the humor in her daily struggles living with a disability, weaving them into her stand-up routines. Her book, What the **** Is Normal?!, has received warm reviews from The Sunday Times and The Telegraph.

Chelsea Davison
Davison appeared on @Midnight this January, where she coined a solid Harry Potter pickup line. She's also appeared in UCB digital sketches, and was selected for the NBC Late Night Writers Workshop.

Ashley Barnhill
Barnhill is a woman of many talents. She's a law school graduate, was a finalist for Project Greenlight, and taught the world a little more about Muhammad Ali (kind of) when she appeared in an episode of Drunk History.

Sarah Millican
Millican's jokes on everything from body image to dating can be self-deprecating, but she always gives herself (and the audience members who can relate) a break. Her U.K. "Outsider" tour is currently running through September.

Cameron Esposito
Esposito made internet headlines last February when she told a gross, but incredibly accurate joke about periods. Her Twitter account is also well worth checking out, with 40,000+ followers enjoying her thoughts on Star Wars, her family and Elf on the Shelf cakes.

Mae Martin
Mae Martin is a pro at weaving pop culture references into her sets in a way that doesn’t alienate some audience members. In recent routines she's dealt with whether she wants, as a comedian, to be labeled and boxed in by her sexuality.

Maggie Maye
In addition to her appearance on Conan, Maggie Maye has performed at SXSW and dozens of other comedy festivals. She also performs improv comedy, and her humor pieces have appeared in The New York Times and Variety.

Leslie Jones
Leslie Jones has blown up as an amazing addition to SNL and one of the four female Ghostbusters. But her incredibly physical stand-up is what launched her comedy career. Watch this set with friends, and I promise for days you'll be saying, "It's not a kitchen lion."

Aparna Nancherla
You might have seen Nancherla on @midnight with Chris Hardwick reminding us all exactly what state Walt Disney's head is. She has also appeared on Conan andLate Night with Seth Meyers.

Chelsea Peretti
You know her as the endlessly entertaining Gina on Brooklyn Nine-Nine. But Peretti's latest stand-up special, One of the Greats, premiered on Netflix last year to fittingly great reviews.

Phoebe Robinson
Robinson has made a brief a appearance on Broad City, where she works as a consultant. She also works as a writer for Fuse's late night White Guy Talk Show.

Nicole Byer
Best known for the hilarious viral sketch "Be Blacker," Byer has also made appearances on 30 Rock and Comedy, Bang Bang.

Megan Kelly Dunn
Trained in improv at the legendary Groundlings, Dunn has also written for a CBS comedy pilot and has appeared on several web series.

Sabrina Jalees
Jalees has an impressive résumé — that includes a role in a "cautionary tale"Lifetime movie. She also has a weekly podcast, My Sexy Podcast, which features her musings on stand-up, among other subjects.

Suzi Ruffell
A comic from the U.K., Ruffell has the perfect riff on when it's actually okay to use the phrase "that's so gay." Her stand-up has gained rave reviews from The Guardian and Time Out.



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Which Celebrity Siblings Made Reddit's Worst Baby Names List?

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When I was little, I hated my name. There aren’t exactly a lot of Marshalls running around, especially female ones. Today, I love my name — but if I still hated it, I could take great comfort in a recent Reddit thread about the worst baby names. Because there are some real doozies out there, and they make my name seem downright normal.

From ones that are just completely made up (Beberly) to the creatively spelled (Aliviyah, pronounced “Oliva”), there's a lot of ways to saddle a newborn with a bizarre name for life. And while the parents of little Jarica (a combo of “Erica” and “Jessica”) were maybe aiming for compromise, some just went literal: Two posters claimed to know babies who were named Baby. Just imagine how many Dirty Dancing jokes that has inspired.

The Redditors also had some hate for the Kardashian-Wests, with North West currently ranking as the 8th worst name by upvotes. I'm not sure what people are getting out of trolling a two-year-old kid (or her three-month-old brother, for that matter), but I'm going to assume North has more important things to think about — like her new home!

What currently holds the top spot for worst baby name on the thread? The almost-normal “Elizabreth,” which, as the comments point out, is very close to Lizard Breath. Now might be the time to call your parents and thank them for whatever better name they chose to give you.



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The BEST Use For An Empty PB Jar

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We’ve all been there: sadly scraping our spoons to the bottom of that (let’s face it) empty peanut butter jar. Because, hey, nut butters are expensive! If you're are tired of trying to eek out every last lick of creamy goodness — then take a breather and check out this brilliant hack.

As it turns out, the rest of that PB is the perfect amount to make a savory sauce for noodles. With the addition of some chopped garlic, soy sauce, lime juice, and sesame oil, you can re-create your very own Asian-style peanut sauce within minutes. Just microwave, shake, and mix it up with some noodles. Bonus points for topping it all off with drops of your favorite hot sauce, some chopped scallions, and a sprinkle of sesame seeds. You'll end up with a super-easy lunch or dinner.


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Sudit_Anna_The_Bed_Post_13_gifIllustrated By Anna Sudit.


A woman about my age and an older man standing close together were having a spirited discussion in my office’s elevator as I got on the other day, until I realized that they weren’t and that the woman was telling the man off. "Why are you hitting on me in an elevator?" she asked him sharply. "This is a business environment. Step back. Step away from me." He did, and was quiet for the rest of the ride down. I wanted to say something to the woman after we got off, but "What you just did was cool" sounded dumb in my head, while "Hey, you okay?" sounded condescending; she hadn’t asked for my take.

But the way she had handled a man in her face in a public place was cool — calm, unequivocal, and effective. It was also completely unlike how I tend to deal with unwanted attention.

I am accommodating. I smile a lot. When harassed in the street, I’m silent, other than the occasional "fuck you" I mutter under my breath (thank you, noise-canceling headphones, for limiting the number of times I hear unsolicited comments in the first place); when faced with a distasteful advance one-on-one, I’m still sweet. Because I want you to like me, even as I demur. I want you to find me sexy even as I turn you down. And I hate that impulse.

I was out with friends recently when the stranger I had started talking to asked me what I do, since that’s what you ask in New York within 30 seconds of meeting someone, and so I told him that I wrote and what I wrote about. His next question: "So you must not be a virgin, huh?"

"Excuse me?" my give-no-fucks, take-no-prisoners feminist self replied. "That’s inappropriate, and I need another drink, bye." Except I didn’t say any of that. I think I smiled and protested limply — flirtatiously, even: "I don’t think that’s your business, heh!" And although I disentangled myself from the conversation soon after that, I was friendly toward this charmer for the rest of the night when we crossed paths.

Sudit_Anna_The_Bed_Post_13_embed_032916-01Illustrated By Anna Sudit.


You could call me a flirt. Or you could say that, due to both nature (how much of the urge to people-please is hardwired?) and nurture (from birth, girls are taught in a million and one ways to people-please), I’d like for you to like me, never mind what I think about you. Maybe there isn't a difference between flirting and wanting to be liked. But I feel acutely the disconnect between the person I am online or onstage — someone serene and steadfast in her conviction that every girl and woman should be the master of her fate and ought not to suffer fools, least of all fuckbois in bars — and the person I am in the bar, seeking said fuckbois' tacit approval. Go away, but please like me. Do you like me? Please leave me alone, if that’s okay with you, of course.

Yes, we do still live in a world in which rejection is often met with hostility and even aggression, and it’s not always safe for a woman to tell a street harasser or would-be suitor exactly what she’s thinking. But safety and the need to please can be separated. When I read articles of the "I did this thing for this many days and here’s what happened next" variety, I think that the hardest thing for me would be to give up smiling. Smiling is the lubricant I apply to my social interactions, my means of assuring those around me — men included and especially — that yes, I am happy to be here, yes, what you are saying is interesting, and while no, I don’t want to have sex with you, it’s not because of you. I just have to rejoin my cock-blocking friends or, so sorry, I have a boyfriend, but in a perfect world I would totally follow my heart’s desire and go with you back to your apartment in Murray Hill, I promise.

And that mental script — I may not be super into this, but don’t worry about that, I want to make sure you are— can spill over into sex. It’s part of why at times, some women fake orgasms instead of saying "Hey, that wasn’t totally working for me, let’s try this instead." It’s why, for example, I get anxious instead of enjoying myself when I'm getting head and an orgasm isn't imminent. It's why instead of thinking, this feels awesome, I'm thinking man,is this guy/girl giving me head okay, should I put on a podcast for them to listen to while they’re down there so they don’t get bored?

This isn’t strictly about the male gaze; I’ve felt this when hooking up with women, too. It’s about an external focus — a preoccupation with how the other perceives me that trumps my attention to how I'm feeling. Meghan Trainor’s new song "No" (which is a banger, so sue me) celebrates "no," but like mine, her "no" is delivered sexily. "All my ladies, listen up," she sings. "If that boy ain’t giving up, lick your lips and swing your hips, girl all you gotta say is no." Yes, girl, be exactly as sexy as you want to be for you and your sexy self. But I wonder why I can’t skip the lip-licking and hip-swinging and skip straight to the rejection, or the "not like that,""I changed my mind," or "step away from me."

Worrying about being unsexy — or worse, unlikeable — when expressing anything other than enthusiastic consent is exhausting. I’m practicing my "no." So are you a software update? Because not right now.

The Bed Post is a series that explores what holds us back from loving and fucking whom, when, where, how, and why we want. We all deserve sex that’s not only free of obvious evils, but full of what is good. Let’s talk about all of it. Follow me on Twitter at @hlmacmillen or email me at hayley.macmillen@refinery29 — I’d love to hear from you! Find all of The Bed Post right here.




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Politicians are not allowed to flip-flop (though, we wish some of them would just flop, already). But beauty editors? Well, it's our job to evolve, to play the field, to change allegiance to certain ingredients or brands, and to admit when we were wrong (um, highlighting caps).

But there are some things, like a favorite fragrance, that inspire lifelong devotion. We'll never truly move on from a scent that reminds us of a first love, a semester abroad, or the way our mom would smell after getting ready at her vanity. Yes, we discover new fragrances that express fresh moods and outlooks, but that doesn't mean we part with the originals. The collection just grows.

Ahead, we ask a handful of beauty editors to take a little stroll down memory lane and tell us the first fragrance they ever wore, and what new ones they're currently obsessing over (Hint: It's a lot of Tom Ford). Though we won't be voting on these picks, you can tell a lot about a person from their signature scent.

Jane Larkworthy, beauty director at W

First:"I thought [Cachet by Prince Matchabelli] was the most sophisticated scent. I just googled it and am pleased to see that it contained grassy, galbanum, and jasmine notes, since those remain some of my favorites."

Prince Matchabelli Cachet Cologne Spray, $99.99, available at Target.

Current:"My assistant beauty editor, Mia Adorante, uncovered this Portland-based brand, whose creator, Josh Meyer, replicated a metallic fire in liquid form, and I am obsessed. So is everyone who smells it."

Imaginary Authors
A City On Fire, $95, available at Imaginary Authors.

Maria Del Russo, beauty editor at Refinery29

First: "I grew up with a mother who would get a migraine any time she smelled a typical perfume, so my introduction into the world of fragrance was more plant-based than flower-based. Hence my place among the masses of tweens who dug themselves some cucumber body spray. Can we all just be real, though, and admit this stuff did not smell good?"

Bath & Body Works
Cucumber Melon Fine Fragrance Mist, $14, available at Bath & Body Works.

Current: "In an interesting turn of events, my go-to perfume of today literally has 'flower' in its name. There's something insanely sexy and alluring about this fragrance from Tom Ford. I get an instant mood- and confidence-boost every time I spritz it on."

Tom Ford Fleur de Portofino Eau de Parfum, $220, available at Nordstrom.

Deena Campbell, hair and beauty editor at Essence.com

First: "Whenever I get a whiff of this sweetly scented fragrance, I’m instantly transported to the hallways of my high school. I wore this fragrance every day for the first part of my high school career because it made me feel like an 'adult.' In ninth grade, I read in Seventeen magazine that magnolia and violets make a woman feel 'beautiful,' and I wanted every single part of it."

Tommy Hilfiger Tommy Girl, $39.50, available at Tommy Hilfiger.

Current: "Traditionally, I’m a floral fragrance girl. But, over the years, I’ve grown to have a deep appreciation for musks. Kedu successfully merges both of my favorites — I’m obsessed with the middle note of rose-peony, and the white musk base note kicks my olfactory sensors into overload. I could bathe in this!"

Memo Fragrances Kedu Eau de Parfum, $250, available at Bergdorf Goodman.

Julie Schott, senior beauty and fitness editor at Elle

First: "My go-to, first-grade fragrance was by Polly Pocket. It looked like a wristwatch, but underneath the face was a perfume solid. VERY chic."

Current: "Today my scent changes throughout the day. I’m obsessed with Dior fragrances. In high school, I wore Hypnotic Poison, which is basically just sex in a bottle — vanilla, musk, jasmine, cinnamon —the least subtle, and I still keep a fresh bottle at home, just because. I wish I had a consistent smell, but as a beauty editor, I can’t commit to one scent.

"Right now, I'm wearing Dior Poison Girl, perfumer François Demachy’s recent addition to the Poison family [which, unfortunately, is not available in the U.S.]. Like my teen fave, it’s VERY sweet and floral, with sugared rose and vanilla tonka bean. Tom Ford’s new Soleil Blanc, inspired by private islands, is also in rotation. It smells like a yacht. Well, I mean, it smells like you live a life of leisure and have access to a yacht."

Tom Ford Soleil Blanc Eau de Parfum, $220, available at Neiman Marcus.

Hallie Gould, senior editor at Byrdie

First: "My first-ever scent was gifted to me right before my 13th birthday — wearing it made me feel like a woman. It was Gucci Rush, a bright red offering that smelled like florals, spices, and freedom. I really fell for it and kept it as my signature scent until college."

Gucci Rush, $77, available at Sephora.

Current: "It wasn't until after I graduated and started working in beauty that I began to feel like I needed to age up a bit, and sprung for Dolce & Gabbana's Intense. It has similar flavor profiles to that first one — an intoxicating mix of sweet and spicy — but I moved on yet again when Tom Ford launched Santal Blush. It's less pricey than Le Labo's version and slightly more floral, but the earthiness of the sandalwood is just as warm. And slightly mysterious. I think that's why I'm so taken with it. I've been wearing it for about six months and don't see an end in sight."

Tom Ford Santal Blush Eau de Parfum, $220, available at Nordstrom.

Alexandra Tunell, senior digital beauty editor at Harper's Bazaar

First: "I remember always having a bunch of Clinique Happy samples in my childhood bathroom, but the first fragrance I ever bought was Britney Spears Curious. I think I was in the eighth grade and it had just launched and had a huge display at Sephora, so it was very cool. I’d only spray it on Friday nights before getting dropped off at the mall, so the bottle lasted through high school."

Britney Spears Curious Eau de Parfum, $17.15, available at Walmart.

Current: "Tom Ford Jasmin Rouge has been my signature for the last five years. I wear it all fall and winter, then switch around more in the spring and summer. I love neroli and jasmine, so usually it's Tom Ford Neroli Portofino or Chloé Love Story, but I just fell in love with Nest Fragrances Citrine — it’s so crisp and clean and cheery."

Nest Citrine, $68, available at Sephora.

Lexy Lebsack, West Coast beauty editor at Refinery29

First: "I dabbled with scents in middle school — I think there was some sort of vanilla body mist by Bonne Bell at some point, and I wore Tommy Girl briefly but never really dented the bottle — but it wasn't until high school that I really started wearing perfume. My first real scent was Emporio Armani, and I was obsessed. I wore it nearly every day for years. I recently saw it in a Sephora and the smell brought me back to high school in the most immediate way. I could never wear it again — it was a moment frozen in time."

Emporio Armani She, $68, available at Sephora.

Current: "Now I rotate between a few favorites: Balenciaga Rose, which is light and fresh but still complex, making it perfect for day; Balenciaga Florabotanica, which is appropriate for day or night, but still a little spicy and sexy; and Tom Ford Shanghai Lily, which is sexy, spicy, and rich smelling — perfect for night."

Balenciaga Florabotanica, $100, available at Sephora.

Annie Tomlin, beauty director at SELF Magazine

First: "Electric Youth by Debbie Gibson was Friday nights at the roller rink, MASH notes on the school bus, wanting an Esprit tote bag and settling for the unbranded one. It wasn’t my first-first perfume — that honor goes to Love’s Baby Soft — but it was the first to make me feel 'adult.'"

Current: "I wear Narciso Rodriguez For Her EDT all year round — I find its floral muskiness eternally comforting and elegant. For spring, I also like Chanel Sycomore, which is a green, smoky take on vetiver, and Vilhelm Parfumerie’s Dear Polly, which smells of crisp apples and black tea."

Vilhelm Parfumerie Dear Polly Eau de Parfum, $245, available at Barneys New York.

Lauren Levinson, senior beauty editor at PopSugar Beauty

First: "The first fragrance I wore was By by Dolce & Gabbana. The leopard-packaged eau de parfum made me feel grown-up and sophisticated as a teen. Then, it was the OG Marc Jacobs Lola for years. The bottle was just so cool, and the scent musky."

Marc Jacobs Lola Eau de Parfum, $68, available at Nordstrom.

Current: "Now, I've moved on to a fragrance wardrobe with some front-runners. Greg Lauren is my go-to in winter because it's warm and sweet in a subtle way. In spring, I love Tom Ford Neroli Portofino for it's peppiness thanks to citrus and florals balanced with amber. Balenciaga B (a.k.a., the one Alexander Wang developed) is my pick for workwear, since I find it to be clean and refined. It's a nice mix of lily of the valley, edamame accord (yup!), and woodsiness — guarantees you really won't smell like anyone else."

Greg Lauren Greg Lauren For Barneys New York Eau de Parfum, $98, available at Barneys New York.

Megan Cahn, senior beauty editor at Refinery29

First: "Sunflowers were such a '90s thing. Donna Martin and Blossom wore them on their hats, and me and every girl in my sixth grade class wore it on our wrists. Well, I’m not sure if I even wore it that often, but I loved how the cheery bottle looked on my dresser. Just owning it made me feel a little fancy."

Elizabeth Arden
Sunflowers Eau de Toilette Spray, $39.50, available at Elizabeth Arden.

Current: "The Elizabeth Arden website describes Sunflower as 'Bright. Light-Hearted. Happy' — and now I'm wearing a scent called the Bitter End. Eek. I hope that doesn't say too much about my personality, but more so that my scent palette has evolved. While I used to go for bright florals, I'm now drawn to grassy, more crisp scents. This one is inspired by the west coast of Ireland (often referred to as the bitter end), with notes of wild grass, mint, fig, and thyme. Mmm, doesn't it sound refreshing?"

Roads Bitter End Parfum, $155, available at Barneys New York.

Cat Quinn, beauty director at Refinery29

First: "Basically, the sweetest-smelling candy fragrance you could find. I'd layer on the lotion, then the body mist for maximum impact. I gave myself headaches."

Bath & Body Works Warm Vanilla Sugar Fine Fragrance Mist, $14, available at Bath & Body Works.

Current: "I still gravitate toward sweeter smells, but now my tastes are a bit more refined. I love the rich caramel base of this scent, which smells warm and delicious but not like the inside of a candy wrapper."

Prada Candy Eau de Parfum, $88, available at Nordstrom.

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Your phone could be a whole lot smarter. Via different apps, it knows who your contacts are, what your upcoming travel plans are, and lets you order goods and services. What if all those separate capabilities could be combined? That's what Microsoft is doing through Skype, with the help of a surprising tool: bots.

Yes, despite the dramatic launch of Twitter chatbot Tay last week, Microsoft is imbuing its chat client with bots, but perhaps not in the way you may think. From within Skype, bots will help you order a pizza, book or manage a hotel reservation, or chat smarter with friends, thanks to help from Microsoft's digital assistant Cortana. Unlike Tay, an AI chatbot that learns from its interactions with humans, these bots are simply designed to act as intermediaries between you and another app or service.

Microsoft showed off Skype's bot-filled future onstage at the Microsoft Build Conference in San Francisco today. To summon a bot's services, all you have to do is talk to Cortana through a button in the upper right of the Skype app. Let's say it's dinnertime. You can tell Cortana that you want to order a pizza from Domino's. Then, because the Domino's app already knows your payment and address information, you just have to confirm a couple details with Cortana and your pizza is on its way. Similarly, you can use Cortana (again, from within Skype) to book a hotel room for an upcoming trip. (In these conversations, if things get too complicated for a bot's automated capabilities, it can always summon the help of a human to take over.) Once booked, it's automatically added to your calendar.

Cortana can then go a step farther — knowing that you've got an upcoming trip to Seattle, for example, and the dates, it can suggest you message a contact who lives in Seattle about your impending visit. It even automatically fills the message field with relevant information in a template format (along the lines of "Hey, I'll be in Seattle April 10-12. Would you want to meet up?").

Skype isn't the only chatting service trying to get smarter. Facebook Messenger is also integrating with other apps, including airlines, so that you can get tasks done without ever leaving its chat screen. Skype's bot-powered smarts, though, are made particularly convenient because of Cortana's voice dictation, and its integration with other parts of your phone, like your calendar.

You can check out the beginnings of Skype's bots for yourself in its updated Windows, Android, and iOS apps today, but right now things are pretty limited. Microsoft just gave developers the ability to create bots for Skype, so there are currently only a few sample bots (you can access them by heading to Contacts, then search "bots," then tap Bots at the top of the screen). Give it a month or two, though, and things should get really interesting.



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Scott Disick and Kourtney Kardashian have over a decade's worth of relationship peaks and rifts under their belt. After their initial meeting on a trip to Mexico in 2006, Disick and Kardashian have formed a family together with three children, a huge mansion, and an even bigger extended family.

The two have never married. They've have had their fair share of publicized fights. On top of that, Disick's committed a long series of betrayals, including cheating, partying, and moving out. Kardashian stuck around through most of it, until she finally ended things in the summer of 2015. Since then, things have seemed to be going well for the co-parents.

Or at least that appeared to be the case up until this week, and now the internet is abuzz with rumors of the two reuniting.

First there were the Snapchats, one of which features Disick saying, point-blank, "We're getting back together!"

Today, it was a radio interview in which Disick again implied that the two may get back together in the future. Disick said he is not ruling anything out and still considers Kardashian the person he loves most in the world.

Most people sound rather excited about it. But, to me, the question on everyone's mind has a pretty obvious answer. Should Kardashian and Disick give it another shot? All signs point to: Hell. No.

The idea of Kardashian and Disick as soul mates — who are able to conquer the trials and tribulations of affairs, alcohol, and assuming absolutely zero accountability for their mistakes — is pretty unrealistic to me. In fact, it should not even be an end goal. Disick is still hanging around in and promoting night clubs like 1OAK even though that may not be the best idea for someone who's just been through substance-abuse treatment.

Disick is Kardashian's "baby daddy," as she calls him, and he always will be. Scourtney as co-parents is great, in theory, and even pretty admirable. But, in my opinion, Scourtney as a committed couple should never happen again.

Just because Disick says Kardashian is his best friend, or the love of his life, does not mean that Kardashian owes him anything. I don't think he should get a pat on the back, much less Kardashian's trust back, just for stating his feelings. Kardashian's single, Disick's single, and they should just leave it at that. The whole family is a tight-knit crew, so rather than ever kicking Disick out, Kardashian could try to let someone else in.

So, in the words of Regina George, stop trying to make Scourtney happen!

Unlike me, the internet is still pretty divided on the idea of the reviving Scourtney.














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No matter how our prom nights actually went down — ending with a shiny crown or the requisite semi-awkward slow dance — the high school rite of passage will always live fresh in our minds (and cringe-worthy yearbook photos): the date, the shoes, and, most importantly, the dress. So when the R29 Fashion Team’s chat group took a turn toward #TBT photos of our regrettable dress choices, we got to thinking about what we'd wear to the big dance if we were invited again. Nowadays, the prom circuit has teens looking much cooler. And we've found a few chic picks that would have made our teenage dream an even better night to remember.

There's no pink organza or rhinestoned column dresses here. Instead, we’re following the trends of fun, shiny metallics and head-turning hems. Find all of our nostalgia-inducing picks ahead, and you may just find some inspiration for your upcoming formal soiree, too.

Vampy but still sweet: a lethal combination.

BCBGMaxAzria Lilyana Lace-blocked Gown, $398, available at BCBG.

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This pastel-pink number is giving us '80s flashbacks in the best way possible.

The perfect frock for the inevitable "Old Hollywood Glamour" theme so many schools go for.

Zara Pleated Dress, $49.90, available at Zara.

Fashion-forward ladies, this off-the-shoulder, multi-slit piece is for you.

Keepsake Heartline Maxi Dress, $205, available at Olivia.

At the end of the day, all we really wanted was to look red carpet ready on an after-school-job budget.

ASOS Off The Shoulder Bardot Fishtail Maxi Dress, $128, available at ASOS.

2014 Taylor Swift would have killed prom in this two-piece set.

Reformation Harper Two Piece, $428, available at Reformation.

All-black would have made matching with our dates so much easier.

& Other Stories Flowy Silk Maxi Dress, $245 $123, available at & Other Stories.

So this velvet number likely wouldn't have fit into our parents' allotted budget, but a girl can dream, right?

Ellery Roulette Long Slip Dress, $1,950, available at Opening Ceremony.

For when winning Prom Queen feels like accepting an Academy Award...

C/MEO Collective Making Waves Strapless Dress, $310, available at Bloomingdale's.

Proof tasteful sheer is no longer an oxymoron.

Three Floor Blue Steel Dress, $376.60, available at Three Floor.

We wouldn't mind standing out in the group picture in a pretty pastel tone.

Elizabeth and James Kendra Gown, $695, available at Shopbop.

If only we could have foreseen how chic a good pantsuit could be.

Mango Velvet Blazer, $149.99, available at Mango; Mango Velvet Trousers, $119.99, available at Mango.



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Last night, a brand-new emoji was unveiled by none other than Stephen Colbert.

He, very fittingly, introduced the "Colbert emoji," a face with his signature single raised eyebrow. According to Colbert, the Unicode Consortium, the nonprofit responsible for approving all new emoji, has described the Colbert emoji as one that conveys "...skepticism, accompanied by the concepts of disapproval and (mild) surprise."

Let's take a moment to moment to wax poetic about this wonderful addition to the emoji family. You can send it to your sister when she says you won't actually have to do that much as her bridesmaid. Or, send it to your best friend when she says that she is only watching a stupid show because she likes to laugh at it. The Colbert emoji says "get real" and "come on, I know you're lying" in the coolest way possible.

As anyone who has been patiently waiting for a new emoji to arrive knows, the process of getting a new one is no simple task. The application to propose a new emoji to the Unicode Consortium requires filling out a 53-question form, submitting a 2,700-word proposal, and other tedious tasks (all just to create a tiny taco symbol!). And once an emoji is approved, it can take a while to show up as an update — usually a year or two. The emoji proposed back in May of last year won't arrive until June; Colbert says his emoji probably won't be available until 2017.

But all this talk of new emoji got me to think of the important ones that we don't have. And no, I'm not talking about an avocado.

Earlier this month, Amy Butcher, an associate professor of English at Ohio Wesleyan University, raised an important, overlooked issue in a New York Times opinion piece: the lack of strong female emoji.

After reading Butcher's piece, I went to find them, convinced that she must have overlooked at least one. But her point held up. I saw men riding bikes and participating in other sports, the male policeman, male detective, male construction worker. I saw women, as Butcher did, serving in the most stereotyped (and almost archaic) roles they could be seen as holding in society: the bride, the queen, and the dancer.

If we can really get a Colbert emoji — which, let's face it, is very specific — can't we get a female politician? (Note to the Unicode Consortium: there is currently a woman running for president and numerous other female heads of state across the globe.)

I'd even settle for a female chef or a writer — anything where a woman isn't stuck as the homemaker while her husband heads to work.

Sadly, it doesn't look like things are going to change too much this year. Among the new emoji currently under consideration are Mother Christmas and a pregnant woman.

Here's hoping that by the time Colbert's emoji is finally ready for use it can be used to accompany a female comedian emoji or maybe — let's get wild — a female lawyer.

See Colbert's entertaining announcement, below:






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Once again, Kim Kardashian has nothing to wear. But this time, neither does Emily Ratajkowski.

After Kardashian (sort of) broke the internet earlier this month with a nude selfie that also started a Twitter feud, she's stripping down with Ratajkowski to send a message about women and their bodies.

Similar to the earlier post, this new photo has Kardashian posing in front of a mirror in a bathroom. This time, however, she's not at home, she's in a public restroom; and she's not naked, just topless, a black bar covering her breasts, with her middle finger up.

Right next to her, Ratajkowski also stands topless, but with both middle fingers up at full salute.

"When we're like...we both have nothing to wear LOL," Kardashian tweeted, a clear message to how she feels about all those who spoke out against her original post.





Ratajkowski had a little more to say about this F-U selfie, tweeting, "However sexual our bodies may be, we need to hve [sic] the freedom as women to choose whn [sic] & how we express our sexuality."

"We are more than just our bodies, but that doesn't mean we have to be shamed for them or our sexuality," she continued, throwing in the hashtag #liberated to let the world know how she feels.







Ratajkowski was someone who spoke out in Kardashian's defense after celebrities like Bette Midler, Piers Morgan, and Chloë Grace Moretz called Kardashian out for showing too much skin. In one tweet, model-actress Ratajkowski even wrote, "Her body, her career. Sexist bullshit."

It's a similar message she sent in an essay she wrote for Lenny Letter, where she talked about the over-sexualization of women and how that differs from women being in control of their sexuality. It's something she continues to stump for with this latest photo with Kardashian.

"Even if being sexualized by society's gaze is demeaning," Ratajkowski tweeted, "there must be a space where women can still be sexual when they choose to be."




It's something Piers Morgan doesn't seem to agree with and is letting Ratajkowski know by responding to her latest tweet with his own message: "Yes, luv. But giving the bird to millions of strangers as you stand topless & gormless probably isn't the best way."

That was just one of the things Morgan had to say about the photo though. At that point, he had already three other tweets that criticized the photo, including one that features the Kardashian and Ratajkowski's selfie and the message: "Just a thought @KimKardashian @emrata - but you could always try wearing a little dignity?"

Of course, if you didn't already know how Morgan really felt about the photo, he made it clear with a tweet that simply said: "RIP Feminism."

Morgan seems like he wants to start another feud with that tweet and we imagine the well-spoken Ratajkowski is more than ready to rumble.












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Hillary Clinton In Harlem: "If Fighting For Equal Pay Is Playing The Gender Card, Deal Me In!"

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Embedd1Democratic presidential candidate Hillary Clinton speaks onstage in Harlem at the Apollo Theater on March 30 in New York City. New York will hold its primaries on April 19. Photo: Spencer Platt/Getty Images.


Laura Ferrelli was among the first supporters to walk through the doors on Wednesday morning at the Apollo Theater in Harlem. Decked out in a "Bill for First Lady" shirt with buttons that read "Dump Trump" and "Hillary 2016," the 28-year-old therapist said her reason for supporting the former Secretary of State and Democratic presidential candidate is simple.

"I like Hillary because I think she'll be able to get shit done," Ferrelli told Refinery29. "I'm liberal, but I don't like Bernie because I think he's too focused on starting a revolution. I don't think he'll be able to compromise, and I think a good leader needs to be able to work with other people who don't agree with them."

Clinton took the stage before a packed audience at the historic theater, pledging to tackle income inequality, gun control, racial inequality, and the gender pay gap. She was introduced by Sen. Chuck Schumer, with whom she served for eight years as a senator in New York before becoming Secretary of State.


You know, loose cannons tend to misfire, and in a dangerous world, that’s not a gamble we can afford.

"Anyone running for president this year faces three big tests. First, can you deliver results that improve people’s lives? Second, can you keep us safe? Third, can you bring our country together again?" Clinton said to the crowd.

She also remarked on Republican candidate Donald Trump's criticism that she plays "the woman card."

"If fighting for equal pay and paid family leave is playing the gender card, then deal me in!" she said.

Both Clinton and Vermont Sen. Bernie Sanders are campaigning in New York ahead of the state's April 19 primary. Sanders is set to hold his own rally on Thursday at St. Mary's Park in the Bronx. Clinton is currently leading the Democratic race with 1,243 delegates pledged (more than half of the number she needs to earn the party's nomination), but Sanders is not far behind with 975 delegates.

It's unclear whether the two will face off in a debate before the primary. Clinton had previously faced criticism after her campaign strategist implied in an interview with CNN that she would not debate Sanders because of his "tone." Clinton has since said that she is open to the possibility of debating Sanders in Brooklyn.


Embed2Clinton speaks with reporters at Make My Cake in Harlem before her appearance at the Apollo Theater on Wednesday. Photo: Spencer Platt/Getty Images.


Clinton addressed criticism from Sanders that her policies don't go far enough to tackle income inequality and tax the rich.

"My opponent says we’re just not thinking big enough. Well, this is New York. Nobody dreams bigger than we do," Clinton said, referring to the state as her home. The Clintons own a house in Chappaqua, which they bought in 1999 for $1.7 million, according to TheNew York Times.

"But this is a city that likes to get things done, and that’s what we want from our president, too. We need a president who will help break down all of the barriers holding back Americans, not just some. I take a backseat to no one in taking on income inequality," she added.

Clinton also took aim at her Republican rivals, namely Trump and Texas Sen. Ted Cruz, on national security and foreign policy.

I know how hard it is to break down the barriers, I know what it takes to get through the door and stay there. I have to respect her resilience, her commitment, and her experience.

"On the Republican side, what we’re hearing is truly scary. When Donald Trump talks casually about using torture and allowing more countries to get nuclear weapons, or when Ted Cruz calls for treating American Muslims like criminals and racially profiling Muslim neighborhoods, that doesn’t make them sound strong. It makes them sound in over their heads. You know, loose cannons tend to misfire, and in a dangerous world, that’s not a gamble we can afford," Clinton said.

Jasmine Schoemberger and Elisa Pavanello, two roommates from Queens, both said foreign-policy experience is high up on their list of priorities in the 2016 race.

"She has a strong foreign-policy record and it's very important right now in this unstable world," said Schoemberger, a student.

Schoemberger said the fact that Clinton is a woman wasn't the most important factor. But Pavanello said it was "very important."

"She would be the first Madam President in the U.S., so it's a big thing," Pavanello, an intern at the United Nations, said.

Vy Higginsen, a lifelong Harlem resident, author, playwright, producer, and radio host, echoed this sentiment.

"It's important to me as a woman. I'm a person that has had a lot of firsts... I know how hard it is to break down the barriers, I know what it takes to get through the door and stay there. I have to respect her resilience, her commitment, and her experience to deliver not just words but actions," Higginsen said.

Lilli Petersen contributed reporting from New York.




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The secrets just keep on coming.

Apparently, Kristin Cavallari isn't done opening up about her Laguna Beach days — far from it. The former reality star and newly minted author continued her spill-a-thon to Buzzfeed this week. The outlet paired her confessions down to 21 key anecdotes. Turns out, she thought she was just as obnoxious on the show as you did. Some select Laguna secrets...

She's not besties with Lauren Conrad, for obvious reasons. But she's still pretty close to Heidi Montag. "I talk to Heidi all the time," Cavallari told Buzzfeed. She also took credit for the whole Speidi phenomenon. "I am responsible for Speidi, that is true. Brody [Jenner] and I introduced them and we had no idea what it would turn into. I love Heidi and Spencer — I think they’re funny. If you don’t take them too seriously and you can just laugh with them, I think it’s great."

Her parents were a little mixed about having a burgeoning MTV reality star for a daughter. "My parents are divorced and I was living with my dad at the time. My dad was very excited about me doing Laguna Beach and he thought it was a great opportunity. My mom, however, living in Chicago, was a little nervous. I mean, she had some reservations about MTV. I think there was a point in my life where I wasn’t even allowed to watch MTV! I think I would be nervous, too, if my kids wanted to do a reality show for MTV at age 17."

She is sticking to her story about the The Hills being scripted — although she admits that, maybe, it might have been a specific to her on Laguna Beach."I never filmed The Hills when Whitney filmed The Hills. So, by the time she left and I came in, it could’ve easily changed a lot," Cavallari admitted in the wake of comments by Port claiming that producers didn't shape the show with a script.

"The only time producers fed me lines on Laguna Beach were more fake phone calls or pick-up scenes. We’d film for nine months out of the year and then they would start cutting episodes together and they would realize that they needed a specific scene. So then, we’d go back and film prom as though it didn’t happen yet or we’d film it as though it just had happened. It wasn’t necessarily an exact line as what to say on Laguna Beach. It was more just 'talk about this.' Whereas in The Hills, they would text us exactly what to say."

There's plenty more where that came from. We can't help but wonder when this woman is going to hit the bottom of her secret barrel.



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What It Really Takes To Get On The Coachella Lineup

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Zella Day is a trooper. It’s the day after her 21st birthday party— a 70-guest bash at an ’80s-themed spot in L.A. — and she's finishing up a whirlwind press day when she answers her phone for our interview. “I’m hanging on by a thread, but hanging on,” she assures me on her ride home to Silver Lake. These days, Day is used to the hustle. The rising singer-songwriter has a hit single, a 100-plus-stop international tour, and a coveted spot on stage at Coachella. And this is all just two years after signing her first record deal.

Despite being one of the smaller-font acts on the fest's lineup, Day has been putting out music and amassing followers for years. (When I ask, she describes her sound as "organic-pop-rock-psychedelic-Western.") Just weeks out from the big show, the small-town Arizona native fittingly models the H&M Loves Coachella collection and reflects on her intense, post-album-release sprint to Indio.

From the ugly truths of motel-living to the squad she’s relied on to get this far, read on to see how it's all added up to this career-changing moment.


02_20160318_SHOT05_501H&M Loves Coachella Crocheted Dress, $17.99, available at H&M.Day's own accessories.Photographed by Kat Borchart.


Hey, Zella. So how does booking Coachella actually work? Was it something you'd thought of as being in the realm of possibility beforehand?
"They approach you, so we got an email that I was requested to play. I was in Texas doing radio promo, and I had just eaten the biggest barbecue lunch of my life. I checked my email with my barbecue fingers and freaked out. I shoot high and I played lots of festivals last year, so it was definitely on my list of priorities. I didn’t expect it, but I was working for it."

Right. You've been working hard promoting Kicker, your full-length debut. What have the eight months since it landed looked like for you?
"I played about 120 shows last year. I was all over Europe, including Russia, and it’s going to keep going. I’m going to route out of Coachella and do some headline dates, and I also have dates supporting Michael Franti."

That sounds exhausting, especially with this being your first real, extensive tour.
"Yeah, it’s been a testament to whether or not I really wanted this. Being away from home and having to run off of little or no sleep is really difficult. It’s a grind to stay in a different hotel in the middle of nowhere every night and have only fast food for the next 300 miles."

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Being on the road for such a long stretch would probably take a physical and mental toll on most people. What's the most challenging part for you?
"I’m a very clean, conscious eater, and I have to be. At the end of the day, there’s no makeup that can save me from eating a greasy hamburger and french fries. In L.A., healthy food is so accessible. But being on the road for months, I look for a good grocery store where I can get snacks to keep me happy — and a good coffee shop! Also I can’t go without breakfast, so I’m always searching for restaurants and making the boys in my band get up 45 minutes before call time so we can go eat together."


03_20160318_SHOT05_736H&M Loves Coachella Crocheted Dress, $17.99, available at H&M.Day's own jewelry.Photographed by Kat Borchart.


Speaking of the guys in your band, what's the dynamic like when you're traveling all over together, like when you're stuck driving for 13 hours straight?
"We can’t get away from each other on tour, so it starts to become this family. Like, you can’t live with them, can’t live without them. When we’re in the van, that’s quiet time. Everybody is relaxing, decompressing, taking a moment to themselves with their headphones on. Because you can’t really get any alone time. And, of course, we get annoyed with each other, but we also have the most fun with each other."

Do you ever get any free time to just hang out and explore as a squad?
"When we were in Fresno, we had a full day off so we spent time walking around the city, going into vintage stores, going to a brewery. That night we went to a bowling alley and ate popcorn and cotton candy and drank beer with the other band. So you do have these beautiful nights where you’re like, Wow, it’s so cool to be living like this in this moment with these people."


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That sounds pretty great. Obviously your band is a major part of your musical act. Who else helps bring the rest of your creative vision to life?
"My mom actually makes all of my merchandise. And my best friend Brittny Moore is my stylist. She’s incredible. My other best friend is a director. I do my day-by-days with him — they’re 15-second videos on my Instagram that are like little journal entries. Also, my boyfriend is an amazing photographer, and he went on the road with me last year and documented the tour. So yeah, I have really good people around me that I love very much. I couldn’t be happy if I was having these moments of success and accomplishment alone."

04_20160318_SHOT01_260H&M Loves Coachella Vest With Fringe, $49.99, available at H&M; H&M Sleeveless Turtleneck Top, $9.99, available at H&M; H&M Flared High Jeans, $39.99, available at H&M. Day's own shoes and accessories.Photographed by Kat Borchart.


It’s interesting that the people you’re closest with are so involved in your career.
"Yeah, I’ve always been that way. It makes me feel happiest knowing the people I’m working closely with truly love and want what’s best for me, which can be hard to find. It’s really a convoluted industry, so I’ve figured out a way to keep my family and friends close."

It sounds especially awesome to have your best girlfriend at your side. What does your working relationship involve?
"We are creating together constantly. She helps me put looks together and packs my bags for tour. She’s also a photographer, so we’re always documenting our fashion story. We have so many photos of outfits I’ve been wearing over the past year that we haven’t even released on my social channels."

And you wear a different outfit for every show, right? That's a ton of looks.
"Yeah, especially when you’re in the festival circuit. It’s just one after another. Coachella’s my first this year, but this one’s going to be really festival-heavy again."

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05_20160318_SHOT02_007H&M Loves Coachella Patterned Velvet Skirt, $24.99, available at H&M; H&M Loves Coachella Blouse With Lace Trim, $17.99, available at H&M.Day's own shoes and accessories.Photographed by Kat Borchart.


You have such a distinct '60s- and '70s-influenced aesthetic. Is what you wear to perform essentially your everyday style, or is it more like dressing up?
"Being on stage is a more amplified version of who I am and what I like. I wear some of my best pieces up there. I also think about lights and movement, like what dress or skirt flows well, what’s going to photograph beautifully, and — since everybody’s looking up at me — what’s going to look good from that perspective. I’ve had moments where I’m wearing too short of a dress and it affects the way I’m singing because I’m self-conscious about anyone seeing my butt cheeks. So you have to make sure you’re completely comfortable going on stage."

As a new artist building your brand,
what image are you looking to project up there?
"My style is strong and confident, but also there’s this sexuality that comes with the clothes I wear without showing too much skin. There’s nothing wrong with showing skin — I like boobs as much as the next person — but I do it in a way where I get to preserve some power."

06_20160318_SHOT03_283Similar styles: H&M Loves Coachella Patterned Camisole Top, $17.99, available at H&M; H&M Loves Coachella Denim Shorts, $24.99, available at H&M. Day's own accessories.Photographed by Kat Borchart.


With Coachella creeping closer, how is your rehearsal schedule ramping up?
"We’re going to do three straight six-hour days, so it’s going to feel like we’ve been on tour. We’re the best when we’ve been touring for a month straight, so we need to get back to that point. Three days is not a month obviously, but it’s good enough. I also have some visual stuff I’m going to be playing around with, and I’m bringing in a surprise artist for one of my songs, so he’s going to be in on the rehearsals, too. It’s definitely more of a production than it’s ever been, which is exciting. It’s really nice to raise the bar."

It definitely seems like a good time to go big. Are you thinking about this opportunity as one that could be a game-changer for you?
"The most excitement about this particular festival is the level of exposure. Because of it, I’m doing an interview for a fashion story right now, and that’s a big part of Coachella. There are so many different elements and contributors that go into the whole experience. It’s fashion, it’s music, it’s so many influencers. And to be a part of both weekends is more exposure than I’ve ever had at a festival. Right now in my career that’s really important. So it’s a blessing."

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07_20160318_SHOT04_672Similar style: H&M Loves Coachella Patterned Jumpsuit, $17.99, available at H&M. Day's own hat and jewelry.Photographed by Kat Borchart.


Totally. Some people might be stressed out by that kind of pressure, though. Are you nervous?
"This has been something I’ve been talking about for five, six months, so the fact that it’s here makes me feel anxious more than nervous. I just want the weekend to be here already because going in it’s a big question mark as to what it’s going be like: the parties and the events and the show and the outfits I’m wearing and the people I’m going talk to. You don’t know until you get there."

Take me backstage with you, right before you're about to go on. What are you doing?
"I like finding a quiet place and taking a moment to get centered. It’s always good before getting onstage to remind yourself why you’re playing shows and who you’re doing it for. Even on my hardest days on tour, the crowd doesn’t know what kind of day I’ve had, nor do they really care. They’re there to hear your music and have a good time. I have to remind myself to leave all my baggage behind and really just give people what they came to be a part of — music and forgetting about the outside world for a moment."



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